过了20多年，这部美剧台词依然引起共鸣

最近，《欲望都市》正式宣布回归，准备拍一部新剧集，名为"And Just Like That…"，主要讲述她们50岁之后在纽约的生活，喜爱这部剧的观众们是不是很激动呢？说起来，这部于1998年开始播出的都市剧，一经播放就获得了许多人的追捧，其中的故事和表达的想法在过了20多年的今天，仍然犹如金句。

简单来说，这部剧讲述了专栏作家凯莉（萨拉•杰西卡•帕克饰）、公关经理萨曼莎（金•凯特罗尔饰）、律师米兰达（辛西娅•尼克松饰）还有理想主义者夏洛特（克里斯汀•戴维斯饰）这四位时尚女性生活在纽约曼哈顿的故事。

剧中主角凯莉为故事叙事者，叙说着她三位好友和自己周边观察到的事情。几位女性经常讨论她们的欲望和幻想，和她们事业和爱情中的痛苦与艰难。她们之间有着坚固的友谊，却有着各自的个性。不同的性格带领她们走向不尽相同的生活方式。

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Some love stories aren't epic novels. Some are short stories, but that doesn't make them any less filled with love.

有些爱情故事不会成为史诗，有些只是短篇小说，但同样都满溢着爱。

That's right. The right guy is an illusion. Start living your life!

没错，根本就没有真命天子。只能好好过好生活。

I'm just gonna say the thing you're not supposed to say. I love you but I love me more. And I've been in a relationship with myself for 49 years, and that's the one I need to work on.

我要说一些本不该说的话：我是爱你，但我更爱我自己。我和自己有49年的感情，这是我必须持续下去的。

In love relationships, there is a fine line between pleasure and pain. In fact, it's a common belief that a relationship without pain is a relationship not worth having. To some, pain implies growth. But how do we know when the growing pains stop and the "pain-pains" take over? Are we masochists or optimists, if we continue to walk that fine line? When it comes to relationships how do you know when enough is enough? 

在爱情里，欢乐与痛苦仅一线之隔。事实上，大家都认为那种没有痛苦的爱情是不值得拥有的。对于一些人来说，痛苦就意味着成长。但是，我们怎么能够知道，什么时候成长的痛苦到头了，而真正的痛苦却来临了？如果我们坚持游走在那条细线上的话，我们是受虐狂还是乐观主义者？在爱情里，究竟怎样才算是受够了呢？

When you're young, your whole life is about the pursuit of fun. Then, you grow up and learn to be cautious. You could break a bone or a heart. You look before you leap and sometimes you don't leap at all because there's not always someone there to catch you. And in life, there's no safety net. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?

年轻的时候，生活的全部就是行乐。随着不断成长，开始小心翼翼。你可能会折断骨头，也或许会心碎。你三思而后行，有时，却根本不会行动，因为在你的背后，不会有人总是支持你。生命中，没有安全网。何时停止行乐，何时又要开始提心吊胆？

Maybe some labels are best left in the closet, maybe when we label people: bride, groom, husband, wife, married, single. We forget to look past the label to the person. There in the same city, where we met as 4 girls, entered the next phase of their lives, dressed head to toe in love. And that's the one label that never goes out of style.

也许一些标签最好留在衣橱里，也许我们都是带上了标签的人：新娘、新郎、丈夫、妻子、已婚、单身。我们忘记透过标签看到真实的人。在同一座城市，我们相遇在青春岁月，走进了人生的另一阶段，用爱从头到脚武装自己。这个标签永远不会过时。

Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging, and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you that you love, well, that's just fabulous.

那天晚些时候，我开始思考爱情。有些人会带给你新奇和异国情调，有些可能是熟识的老朋友；有人会经常提问，也有人会带你去意想不到的地方；你曾被远远带离最开始的地方，也会有其他人再把你带回来。然而，在所有的爱情中，最让人激动、充满挑战而又意义深远的，其实是你自己，如果有一天你找到了和自己一样爱自己的人，那将是最美妙的。